Trust?

I have really been reflecting on my relationships, the trust issue in particular. I think I am naturally naive and too easy to trust people. For this reason I tend to keep to myself and mind my own bussiness. I guess this is my protective mechanism from becoming involved with dishonest, untrust-worthy people. I was never a quiet person, but I have learned to keep quiet and to keep to myself to avoid icky  situations. Often my quietness is mistaken for being anti-social and unfriendly. I just don't like drama. I don't want to start trusting someone, then find out they are untrustworthy  after I am already close to them. My query is "how do you deal with someone very close who is dishonest and often untrustworthy". At what point do you stop forgiving the dishonesty? At what point do you stop trying to re-build trust?


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Some women?

I am amazed at the low character of people. Today I am thinking of women, in particular. Why are some women willing to do indecent things with men who are in commented relationships? Why do some women make continued advances to a married man who has made it very clear he has no interest in being unfaithful? How can you befriend a commented man while secretly having impure intentions-- and still call yourself a women?  What ever happened to decency and having moral character. It is mind-boggling to me. Is the ratio of men to women so low that a women must sink to such a level? Or-- is the real  issue low self-esteem?  And-- yes, I am speaking from recent, personal experience.


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